Divorce During the Holidays: Why Christmas Brings Family Law Issues to the Surface in Wake County
The holidays are supposed to bring families together—but for many couples, Christmas does the opposite.
Every year in Wake County, we see an increase in family law consultations during and right after the holiday season. For some, Christmas is the breaking point. For others, it’s when long-standing issues finally become impossible to ignore.
At Betham Law, PLLC, we often hear the same thing:
“I tried to hold it together for the holidays… but I can’t do this anymore.”
Why Divorce Conversations Happen Around Christmas
The holidays tend to magnify problems that already exist. Financial stress, family expectations, time off work, and emotional pressure can bring unresolved issues to the surface.
Common stressors include:
Financial strain from holiday spending
Tension around extended family
Disagreements about parenting or discipline
Feeling stuck or unhappy during what’s supposed to be a joyful time
For many people, the New Year represents a fresh start—and Christmas becomes the moment they realize change is necessary.
Is It a Bad Idea to Separate During the Holidays?
There’s no “perfect” time to separate or file for divorce. That said, the holiday season can feel especially heavy—particularly when children are involved.
Some parents choose to wait until after Christmas to make changes. Others realize that staying in an unhappy or tense household isn’t healthier for their children, even during the holidays.
What matters most is:
Your safety and well-being
Your children’s emotional health
Understanding your legal options before taking action
Talking to a family law attorney doesn’t mean you have to file immediately—it means you’re informed.
What to Avoid If You’re Considering Separation at Christmas
If you’re thinking about separation or divorce, try to avoid:
Making impulsive decisions during emotional moments
Moving out without understanding financial or custody consequences
Using children as messengers or emotional support
Announcing plans in front of extended family
A short conversation with a Wake County family law attorney can help you make calmer, smarter decisions—even if you’re not ready to act yet.
How Betham Law, PLLC Helps During the Holidays
At Betham Law, PLLC, we understand that holiday separations are emotionally complicated. Our goal is to help Wake County families move forward with clarity—not panic.
We can help you:
Understand your rights before separating
Plan next steps quietly and responsibly
Protect your children and finances
Prepare for the New Year with a clear plan
🎁 Final Thought
If Christmas made it clear that something isn’t working, you’re not alone—and you’re not failing.
Sometimes the bravest gift you can give yourself and your family is honesty and a plan for what comes next.
If you are going through a separation during the holidays, schedule a consultation with an attorney at Betham Law, PLLC and we will guide you through the process. For legal advice relating to any family law matters, please contact Betham Law, PLLC to schedule a consultation today.
